How IKEA Australia helps families find safety
Kai* is a bright and thoughtful 14‑year‑old boy with autism. When he first connected with 54 reasons, he was facing significant challenges. His father Max* had endured domestic and family violence (DFV) in his former relationship, and despite repeatedly seeking help, he encountered barriers common for male victim-survivors – especially those in LGBTQIA+ relationships like Max. Services often struggled to understand or respond appropriately to his situation, making it extremely difficult for Max to create safety and security for his family.
The need for a solution was even more urgent because of the care Kai needed, and because Max is also the carer of his elderly mother who lives with them and needs daily support.
When they were referred to 54 Reasons, the family was living with high levels of risk. Our Outreach Program immediately recognised the gaps in support for male survivors and stepped in with inclusive, trauma‑informed care tailored to their needs.
Showing up when support isn’t one‑size‑fits‑all
With ongoing guidance from a dedicated DFV Specialist, Max began to regain control over his family’s future. Together, and with Kai's rights and needs at the forefront, they developed detailed safety plans, navigated complex legal processes, accessed emotional wellbeing support, sought the support of Victim Assist Queensland, and strengthened protections at home through security upgrades.
Kai received individualised support to help rebuild stability – from school supplies and a laptop to youth outreach through the NDIS, mental health care, and opportunities to re‑engage with sport and music. And Max’s mother was connected to community aged‑care services, easing the daily caregiving load.
Throughout it all, Max and Kai demonstrated remarkable resilience. Despite carrying the responsibilities of parenting, caregiving, and healing from violence, Max has remained committed to rebuilding a safe life for his family.
Overcoming barriers thanks to IKEA Australia’s rental support
One of the biggest challenges was finding safe accommodation. Although Max qualified for housing support, DFV specific accommodation for men simply wasn’t available due to the overwhelmingly gendered nature of domestic and family violence. DFV refuges are generally designed for women and children, leaving very few suitable options for men – particularly those in the LGBTQIA+ community.
A private rental became the only option – but this was extremely difficult to navigate given Max’s part-time employment and the tight rental market.
This is where partnership support is truly vital: IKEA Australia is working with Save the Children Australia to create more safe places to call home. This includes financial assistance for housing and specialist support services – such as rental assistance for families starting again – along with design expertise and home furnishings for different types of refuge accommodation. Thanks to IKEA’s rental assistance – made possible through donations from IKEA and their customers – Max and Kai received critical support at exactly the right moment.
The funding eased the financial pressure of relocating, allowing Max to prioritise his family’s safety and wellbeing. It meant the family could move into a home sooner, avoid remaining in a high‑risk situation, and create a stable foundation for recovery.
Finally, Max and Kai had hope, breathing room, and the chance to build a future free from violence.
A brighter, safer future
Today the trio are settled into their new home, surrounded by their much‑loved pets, and supported by the strategies, connections, and confidence built through the Outreach Program. Max continues to be a protective, engaged parent who is giving Kai every opportunity to thrive. Kai is more settled in school, has consistent routines, and is benefiting from the stability around him. And Max’s mother is linked in with services that lighten the caregiving load.
For this family, IKEA Australia’s support has been a key part of their ability to move forward safely.
*Names have been changed to protect privacy